[fintstone]

LOL...but that is the point. A guy does not have to be good looking to have women appreciate him...he just needs to not be horrible, be morbidly obese or have poor hygiene. Being well educated, travelled, nicely dressed, professionally accomplished, and empathetic really go a long way. Being able to cook a gourmet meal or wear a suit or tux comfortably/well and then be able to fix the car or install a new hot water heater...and to be gentle enough to make her feel special and at ease but tough enough that she would feel safe with you in the roughest situation.

Looking like Charlie Brown is good because one does not look so dangerous that their guard is up...but not unpleasant or disgusting. It allows one to work in stealth mode.