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Originally Posted by BeyGon
Just went through this with a car friend, he found out he had cancer about a year ago, did all the Kemo and suffered the pain. He died last Monday. I called him about every week, saw him about once a month, we just BSd, mostly talked about my rock carving, no need to ask how he felt, he would just say things aren't getting better and they won't. I once talked about afterlife, we had similar views, I said hey when you get there if you see we were wrong, send me a sign. We did laugh about that one.
Last week he said the pain was getting really bad, I felt bad but there really isn't much you can say.
He was a great guy and I liked hanging around with him.
I will not ever do the Kemo crap.
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BeyGon.....I hope you never have to make the choice, but I will do Chemo AGAIN if needed.....and AGAIN if needed some more......yes it was brutal, but I'm still here!!!
I am really sorry to hear about your friend, and I think the OP did the right thing. Good on you!!!