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I just don't understand.

Did your daughter give any indication that it was all getting too much for her? I understand how kids are a bit overwhelming, god knows they don't come cheap, or with instruction manuals, but to just dump them on you guys, that is just not right, but it has happened, and they are lucky to have you and Beth. No problems with the authorities getting custody I hope, you being fine upstanding citizens and all!