[Rick V]

Thanks Paul (and everybody else) it really does make me feel good for the outpouring of support.
I think I have actually managed to hammer out some details that will make everything fall into place.
My next hurdle is going to be Getting Beth back on her feet when the kids go to live with their father.
Please note custody belongs to Beth and I so we can, at anytime remove them from the home if we have to, and at gunpoint just because it much more fun that way.