my wife; she is pretty frugal..like it is her super power.
when she does spend money, it is wisely spent. like home repair/improvements, health cost, like gym, good food. so she isnt a "cheap-skate".
me? guns, knives, axes, performance car parts...unwise spending.
she is fully committed and understands the differences between a "Want" and a "Need".
it gets foggy for me
like i NEEEEEEEDDDDD and new full suspension mountain bike..and i NEEEEEDDDDD to go to colorado to bowhunt elk. both of these are clearly catorgorized as "health benefit cost" to me. a gray area.