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Originally Posted by tweezers74
So see? Why couldn't you hang out with those girls as friends? Or do you just not spend time with women unless she is your wife/girlfriend/romantic interest? This is fascinating. I must seem like the biggest flirt because I talk to everybody, male and female, the same. I wonder if I sent guys the wrong message more than once? Ha ha. If only they knew the ignorance under the exterior!
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Smart guys will look at how a girl treats/talks to other guys and decide if they are a special interest of the female or not. People are different.
If a girl is calling me dear/honey and not other guys dear/honey, and I wouldn't marry her, I'm running away! FAST! Out in the "south", it can be common for a girl to just call everyone honey or dear as a part of the language. One of my female teammates from a 24hr kart race does that.
IMHO, a "date" is setting a time, place, and day to go do something together. It doesn't always imply boy friend/girl friend. Any girl that tries to claim me as their boyfriend out of the box hits a reinforced concrete wall of instant and total resistance. Game Over.