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Originally Posted by masraum
Stay out of it, not your problem
He's there for some reason, so he is getting something out of it
There's a butt for every seat
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This. I have learned that NOBODY knows the workings of a relationship except the two people who are in it. And those two people are the ones that live with the consequences of their decisions. You have described her role in it but on the flip side, he is the one who has chosen to stay. If he does get sick of her antics, he will make that decision to leave on his own. Until then, he isn't ready to leave and just because you or somebody else said something about her isn't necessarily going to help him make that decision. And even if it looks messed up, sometimes messed up works for people. Heck, some people may think your relationship is messed up. That's why I say let it lie. People value different things in relationships. Who are we to judge if we value different things in ours?
I agree with, Jim. Steer clear.