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One last thought on this Tweeze,,,
(switching into story mode here)
True friendship in a relationship I find is the key above all other traits.
I knew my wife as a friend for a couple of years before the lightbulb went off in my head. In all fairness her lightbulb went off before mine did but, her best friend made a move on me first (surprised me and I wasn't looking for it at the time).
So, my wife's best friend and I dated for several months while still being good friends with Deb. Heck most of my dates consisted of two or three couples going out together or just the two of us with Deb as the third party.
So, I went out to sea for a ONE week period and when I came back it was apparent that someone didn't wait for "The man to return from the Sea" (think Old Spice commercials). So, that was the end of that. Months go by and the group is still pretty much the same except now I'm not dating and Deb's best friend is dating "the Cop".
Meanwhile Deb moves down to Santa Cruz to go to school and moves into the house where we still live to this day,,,,,
More to come, I have a meeting to go to.
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Harmlessly passing gas in the grassland away;
Only dimly aware of a certain smell in the air
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