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Originally Posted by Jferr006
I've found it was difficult to like the things I like and find a guy that's ok with it...until hubs. He always tells his friends he knew I was the one because he'd tease me relentlessly and I wouldn't get mad, I'd give him crap right back. A lot of guys thought I liked cars to get guys but, I really do love getting down and dirty and I love fixig things up. I'm certainly not afraid to try anything once but, i tend to gravitate towards things usually considered guy things.
I think I might be a gay man trapped in a woman's body.
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I am not wise. On some things I am but when it comes to men, CLUELESS! I find that men say that they enjoy my banter... At the beginning. And then I think guys want that woman to be all lovey dovey too. I have no problem doing that. In fact, I am really good at it! The problem is remember, I am like a man so he needs to tell me to turn down the sarcastic smart-a$$ and turn up the womanly i love my man stuff. How am I supposed to know if you don't tell me? I can't read his mind. My ex husband used to tell me I am too much like a guy in the sense when he vented to me that I tell him this is what you need to do, when all he needed me to do was cuddle with him and tell him he is the big strongman that can figure it out. I need to get better at that. Not be so hard headed. How do I do that?