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Originally Posted by gsxrken
The thing to realize with these people is that they are somehow just not aware of how normal people behave. It's not like he said to himself "boy, I'm going to screw him again here." Or that everyday he makes a new decision not to pay you back for something. The best way to look at these things is to realize that they are like five year olds- no malice but no clue, either.
That can be frustrating in its own way, but it' better than thinking they are saying F-You as they go about their self-centered lives.
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Yup, I know people like that.
I find telling them what's expected in a matter fo fact simple tone helps them and no one gets stressed or feels slighted.