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Originally Posted by tweezers74

No, the younger men were very nice. The older men, one did make a comment that he was underdressed. The other was a friend so I think he was trying to make it out to be that he wasn't trying to impress...

There is fine line. I have also gone out with men from Scottsdale and they wear clothes that are totally obnoxious and all they talk about is money. Who freaking cares?

As far as the loser statement, I don't like to say that. Everybody has their type and just because they aren't mine doesn't mean they are a loser. BUT, if they are looking for a certain caliber of woman, they need to step up their game. If they want a woman relaxed and nonchalant like they are, they should continue to show up in shorts and a tshirt. I say be who you are from the beginning.

I agree regarding their game or lack thereof. Sounds to me like these men have no game whatsoever...and I would expect them to be equally deficient in other areas as well. I treat women that I am not even dating better than that. If I were to go out with a woman...even for business...I would inquire as to what they were wearing and dress appropriately. If your date from the night of the photo you posted (black dress) was not wearing a suit...he is a fool and not worth your time/consideration. If it were the first date, flowers should preceed his arrival (earlier in the day)...or at least be in his hand when he arrives.