[stomachmonkey]

I think if you can manage it it's the right thing to do.

Given the choice of spending hours a day at a hospice and having her pass by herself in the middle of the night or having her pass at home with the knowledge that she went peacefully and not alone I know which I would take.

Having said that the fact that you asked and considered the options means that whatever decision you do reach is the right one and the best one for both you and your mother.

My condolences.