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I know a guy that would call the cops when the mom refused to let him take the kid for court appointed visitation, they couldn't do anything but then he had a record of the event, then his lawyer reported her actions to the judge. Judges tend to get pissed off when people don't obey them. He's had consistent visitation for years now, after about a year of none before reporting the lack of visitation to the court.

DON'T EVER GIVE HER ANYTHING SHE CAN USE AGAINST YOU. Don't do something stupid like take him out of school for an unscheduled visit. Then you'll have her accusing you of kidnapping. Long term is what matters most.