[RKDinOKC]

If either of a carnally involved couple are in a spousal arrangement with someone other than the partner and word gets back to that spouse, then there may very well be some sort of spousal revenge taken. My Mother always said if she found that my Dad did anything carnally with anyone else, she would kill him in his sleep. She stated it so matter-of-factly it was kind of scary.

Gentlemen also do not kiss and tell so as not to sully a lady's reputation.