[Porsche-O-Phile]

You're a male - get used to the feeling of getting screwed sans lube. The courts presume every male is a worthless, borderline abusive jerk and is good for nothing other than accreting money to be handed over to the women "for the good of the kids" (but hey, if it happens to get spent on junkets to Europe, Cadillac Escalades or spa treatments oh well that's irrelevant...).

Thank goodness there's mediation and settlement out of court. Males have NO rights in family law court and will NEVER get a fair shake. Once you accept this and realize its about cutting your losses you'll cope better.

All the best. You should still fight like hell but since you have testicles, expect to lose.