[Evans, Marv]

Thank goodness there are very special people like you in the world. It takes a very big person inside to care and fill in the void like you did. I'm sure you benefited from the experience knowing how much capacity for caring you can give and how you have that courage and caring capacity to fill in where some others are so lacking. You are right that the father is a real POS, but people like him die having left emptiness behind them, whereas people like you die with the knowledge you have filled such emptiness with love and caring and made it possible for others to deal with losses and tragedy.