[Chocaholic]

As a parent and avid motorcyclist, I can certainly see and respect your perspective. I love my kids and my bikes and wouldn't change a thing.

Honestly, if you and your companion (not married presumably) look at a newborn child and immediately see swaddled cash, you're making the right decision. Have fun, enjoy life and take the comments in stride. Raising a family is the "norm" so you shouldn't be put off by some that don't understand.

Lastly, your lengthy post impacted me as being overly defensive. Comparing a young parent's enthusiasm to your bike is really very childish. If i were him, I'd have probably reacted the same. If so, perhaps there's some underlying guilt? Perhaps thoughts of loneliness in old age? No need to answer. Life is a journey...and a great one mostly, regardless of the path chosen.