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Originally Posted by tweezers74
I think sometimes women can be even bigger POS sometimes by not recognizing that they can rid themselves of their exes and their POS behavior if they came up with a plan to not be dependent on them. I don't understand that.
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I don't know what kind of plan would have worked for her. She had a good job (better than dad's) and wasn't really dependent on the dad. 14 months ago our biggest concern was his erratic demands for custody.
Then their son got cancer. She used up all her vacation and FMLA time and then had to quit her job to take care of the child. She burned through all her savings and everybody stepped in to help but the POS father.
That's all in the past. She and the boys are doing OK when he's not jabbing at them and I'm sure she would be happy to have POS disappear and never see her or give her a dime ever again.
I'm just appalled that a father would take out a life insurance policy on his dying child and have a lawyer on the line waiting for the child to pass away so he could to sue to end child support ASAP. It's stunningly cruel and heartless and the knowledge that this man still has two sons to destroy is killing me. I love them and spend time with them every week, but I don't know if I can stomach watching what he'll do to them.