[RWebb]

Subaru Outback has the best traction of any AWD and has good gnd. clearance. All Subes are tough (I beat the eff out of my MY 2000 Outback) are good in crashes (mine was T-boned by a red light running, speeding idiot girl who was likely on a cell phone).

Check, but IIRC new Subes are highest rated for safety - be sure to check both the govt. website AND IIHS as the latter runs more tests.

SUVs with real 4wd will beat it.

You need to check each year vehicle for your concerns - e.g. Outbacks have more gnd. clearance in recent years.

But, I'd cross the Volvo off the list based on reliability & repairability concerns.

I had 2 Honda Pilot leases and it gets a solid B+ in every way, gets an A in nothing - so it is versatile, nice interior, space-efficient, will handle most conditions decently (not as good as a Sube) - it's the all-arounder.

I also had a 4Runner (1990s version) - it was the more serious bad road alternative to a Sube - easy to tip over tho. No idea what the newer ones are like.

Beyond the passenger and cargo space differences, it really depends on what the exact use will be AND if you are willing to trade off those last 5 or 10 miles of two-track road use for nicer hwy manners, comfort & safe speed.