[bivenator]

Time marches on and about three weeks ago it was my Father in Laws time. He passed suddenly due to a massive stroke. Ex Marine, nice guy, terrific father, he is missed.

His wife, (my MIL) has early Alzheimers aged 74, has come to live with my wife daughter and me. I welcomed her and could not see putting her into a home.

My wife is a stay at home mom, daughter is in fourth grade. My wife was looking to rejoin the workforce this year but with this event that will not be possible. Mrs bivenator had some medical issues last year and it is imperative that she work as much debt has accumulated.

Mrs bivenator has 3 siblings, all married and all successful.

MIL estate will be only a few thousand dollars after all debts are settled.

I want the siblings to pay my wife for providing 24/7 care but am unsure of amounts. Any amount would be in addition to the social security that the MIL will receive.

This situation is creating lots of friction between one sister (lawyer with the power of attourney) and my wife.

Any Pelican advice or experience with this type of situation will be much appreciated.