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Originally Posted by BRPORSCHE
Man this is no fun. This is how family's are destroyed
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Agreed. Very important insight since this is when the fabric of a family unravels.
Much more back story needed. Why you guys, why the sister with POA, etc.
This is going to sound heartless, but get the siblings together, face-to-face, and lay it all out, nuts and bolts: The difficulty of Alzheimers, how much the estate is worth, what you are willing to do, what they should do, etc., expressed in time and money. Be frank and specific. Get real world quotes from providers in the field.
You guys need a business plan, with detail and dollars.
Then be prepared to do the right thing because so few people are.