[Lothar]

Agreed, good advice here. It makes me appreciate being an only child when I went through my parent's last years.

I will offer one bit of advice. With dementia/Alzheimer's, you will need to continually assess any risk of wandering from your home, if she is going to live with you. Some are predisposed to take off and will get lost, while other will not. This is a serious safety issue. It only takes a quick trip to the grocery store to have a real problem on your hands.