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This thread really hits home....Everyone's provided some great perspective! It is very honorable that you & your wife have accepted the challenge. Some people are wired that way and some not. Alzheimer is devastating to both victim and those immediate family caretakers.
You will face many challenges including the day you decide to commit her to nursing home. Without going into too much detail, you will find that you may have to cut the power off in the kitchen when going to bed. Also, make sure your doors are locked and can only be opened with a key(deadbolt) just in case she starts to wonder off.
My Brother(married) and I(single) took turns caring for Mom for about 8 months before we committed her to nursing home. All of our other siblings lived out of town. It was the toughest time in my life and everything since has paled in comparison. I had never been more humbled until the first time I had to bathe my Mom.
I am encourage that you and your wife will provide for her immediate care. I know my Sister has always wished she was more involved.
Best regards,
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