Seems this....
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Originally Posted by recycled sixtie
Yes SM you are probably right in that I am judging him for things that he may never do.
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May be the reason for this...
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Originally Posted by recycled sixtie
Any help that has been provided to the aunt prior to her going into an Alz. home has backfired as being interference.
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My wife and her sister butt heads all the time. My SIL regularly forms opinions on what is in an others best interest based on nothing but her own perspective and then acts on or sets into motion things that the other party gets stuck with even when the other party tells her, "no you are wrong that is not what's best for me"
Inevitably SIL's good intentions end up creating a situation that has the exact opposite result of what she expected or intended resulting in anger and resentment.
Put another way, just because you
think you are doing the right thing does not mean that you
actually are doing the right thing.
I hope this difficult time works out for your wife's family.
Best
Scott