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Originally Posted by Andy911sc
Morning Everyone!
I was told that I need to stop procrastinating on wedding stuff. I keep telling her we have plenty of time.
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Andy, no! Don't tell her that! She will get annoyed with you. Follow Glen's lead. Just agree and say, you are totally right babe! And then follow her around while she does wedding errands or looking at stuff in magazines. And if she asks a question, key thing is to pick something specific about about what she is pointing out and make a statement about it. Doesn't matter what it is. Because you didn't give her a generic guy answer and said something specific she will think you are engaged and listening. And if she doesn't agree with your statement and says, "but honey, really? You didn't like that?" Ask her why she likes it and she will tell you and you follow up with, "now that you point that out, yeah, I see what you are saying... Yeah, let's go with that one." So, in the end, she thinks you are engaged in the conversation, she gets what she wants while thinking it was a mutual agreement and hence the most awesome fiancée ever, and you are off the hook with minimal involvement/work/fighting/etc.
And Sidney, don't read this.
