[diverdan]

Your "brother in law, the deputy" needs to stop by for coffee once in a while (during peak business hours) in his patrol car. Introduce everybody in a real friendly way. Its always interesting when they find out that you are from a family of law enforcement, especially if it leaks out that some are undercover. "Oh we haven't seen him before." "Well, he usually works undercover." A friend with a plain Jane late model Crown Vic or Charger also gets attention. Passive aggression.