[cashflyer]

You know you are getting older when you stop trying to make others happy, and stop expecting them to make you happy. People will disappoint you at every possible opportunity.

When I ask people "how are you doing?" I really don't care what the answer is. I'm just practicing the social convention of feigned politeness. I'm not trying to be rude; I'm trying to be genuine, and I genuinely just don't give a **** about most people.

Likewise, when people ask me, my standard answer is, "fine, thanks". That's it. If you don't know me, don't expect me to converse with you any more than necessary. I recognize that you don't give a **** about me any more than I do you, so why waste time for both of us with meaningless drivel?



The dentist I used to go to was an exception. Both he and his hygienist were Porsche owners and both enjoyed discussing the cars and races. He, more than probably any other person, sparked my interest in and love for Porsches.

Unfortunately, he died a few years ago and the office closed down. My new dentist only seems to enjoy talking about his 'comprehensive plans for dental health' and how many office visits I should budget for.