[Baz]

Thanks for the replies so far.

I just sent my 2 brothers an email asking what they would like to see as a standard for IN PERSON visits.

They are both married so I also included a question about a 'guys-only' get together...camping trip or some other destination of interest.

A number of years ago when my oldest brother (who lives in VA) got remarried, all 3 of us went to visit Dad's grave in Hampton. Then we went back to our old neighborhood...our old house....and schools....that was cool...just us. I miss that.