[diverdan]

Safety and 30 + mpg are a bit contrary. So are high and safe. Low maintenance and DIY are also somewhat contrary. A good Subaru may fill the bill. If the proper Saab could be found, it would be a fairly safe and snow tractable bargain. My winter cars are Saabs in the frigid north country. Beware of the catalyst under the oil pan design problem. These Swedish beasts are definitely a buyers game.

There are so many cars out there, but 30 + mpg seems to be unrealistic in a safe vehicle at your price point. Jeeps and small pickups are within the price point, but definitely not at the top of the safety chart. The MB diesels do have the safety and economy factors well below the price points, but very few get 30+.

You want to make her happy so make sure that she is in on the selection of the car. Good luck.

Dan