I felt this exchange from another thread deserves its own thread.
Several people PM'ed and "liked" my post with some insightful feedback.
Here are 2 opposing viewpoints on how to deal with attractive women.
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Originally Posted by XXXXXXXX
Cars, boats, planes, women - ANYTHING. I spent more in two months with one woman than I spent on all the rest combined, including my wife of near twenty years. She was so hot my pants would melt off every time I saw her. But holy hell, she was VERY expensive to maintain. Hermes doesn't grow on trees, boy.
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Originally Posted by PushingMyLuck
Buying her Hermes? *Shudder*
Your excessive adulation & doting proved to her you are not used to being with attractive women like this, and therefore, do not deserve her caliber. You acted like you never dated a woman so hot. By overcompensation, a low value male conveys clearly that he is not used to this, and shows her she has made a mistake in her selection. With his subservient attitude and actions, he demonstrates he is lower status than her, that he is beneath her. That he does not deserve to be with her. That he needs to "bribe" her into staying.
You proved this to her by showering her with gifts like a desperate clingy beta male without better options, and that's why she promptly left you for a more deserving man. By deserving, I mean someone who was not nearly as impressed with her as you were. Someone who called her out when needed. Someone who could take it or leave it. This is strength that a high value female is attracted to.
In contrast, imagine a powerful man who is quite used to dating models. Would he behave this way? Would he be rushing out to buy her expensive gifts so he does not lose this once in a lifetime opportunity? By doing so, he sabotages himself with his very actions that prove his desperation.
Instead, had you ignored her a little more, not always agreed with everything she said, had a life outside of revolving around her, didn't cater to her every whim, and indicated you could replace her with ease.....In a word, acted like a man deserving of her caliber. Yes, she would have remained interested in you. Instead, you did the exact opposite. Which is why she dumped you. I wish I could show you the men she dated before and after you, particularly the ones she enjoyed having sex with, and it would confirm everything I've said.
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I ask you please stay on topic, and refrain from personal attacks.
- What rules have you learned the hard way?
- When did you see the light? How old were you?
- What made you see the light? A movie, website/blog, bad learning experience?
- What do you wish you did differently? Got a painful to admit story?
- What did you vow to never do again?
- What do you know now, that you wish you knew in your youth?
- Did you fix your current relationship with new found insight?
Or, are you just as clueless as you were in grade school?