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You just have to realize that YOU as an individual are ultimately worth more than any poon- and transmit that to your potential mate.
you will NOT sacrifice your happiness to have her around
she will RESPECT what you need, not always what you want.
Woman will not respect you if you don't respect yourself.
In my 20's and early 30's I was a sappy romantic, Mr. Chivalrous ass kisser- always got attention, but never kept it. Women say they want a "nice" guy which, what they mean is one that can take care of himself, not one that kisses their ass like on those romantic comedies.
By my mid 30s I finally wised up. Any obvious deviation or attempt to control will be met by slamming door. Set your ground rules, and stick to them, and don't be afraid to walk since the alternative is personal Hell. Been to personal Hell, and I don't want to return.
I find myself telling that bit to women I meet these days- the conversation always gravitates towards this subject, I just say (in a bit of a warning tone) "I'm set in my ways, and I've learned that no one is worth your sanity- either we fit together, or we don't- I'm not sacrificing my sanity just to have someone"
Of course, to remain in control you have to be unstable- see previous post for more.
rjp
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Last edited by RANDY P; 01-19-2014 at 08:36 AM..
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