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Originally Posted by RANDY P
You just have to realize that YOU as an individual are ultimately worth more than any poon- and transmit that to your potential mate.
you will NOT sacrifice your happiness to have her around
she will RESPECT what you need, not always what you want.
Woman will not respect you if you don't respect yourself.
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This is true. PML makes a mistake above of make a lot of assumptions (and making the wrong assumptions) about the direction my particular relationship went.
But back to your point: the other side of your coin is also clear - a woman worth keeping is a woman who respects herself. Who has her own sense of self-worth and value. Low self-esteem women CAN be fun for a very short amount of time, but the novelty wears off quick. Clingy, needy women, no matter how attractive or sex-filled, get to be a boat anchor you desperately want to be rid of. Best to not get sucked into their vortex of neediness to start with, because it can be hard to get away. And let's not even talk about the low self-worth women who become jealous about every dang thing you do, even when you're just going out to talk about cars with the guys. "Where are you going? Will there be girls there? Don't look at those girls!" Sheesh. It gives me a headache just thinking about it.