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Originally Posted by Baz
I'll preface this by saying there are a lot of folks who DO know what they are doing and they enjoy WONDERFUL relationships.
But for those who are NOT sure of what they are doing...may I offer 3 basic ground rules:
1. Never get married
2. Never date another person with kids
3. Never let a person move in with you
Again - these basics are meant to keep one out of harm's way and are specifically for those do NOT know what they are doing....
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Great Advice Baz: I held out 9 yrs between marriages....She had 2 kids, but I waited till the were out of high school and gone......I didn't let her move in, at a certain point she just never left.......
Fast forward after 25 yrs of marriage: 7 grand kids and one great grandkid.....Guess where all of her time and most of my money goes now?