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Originally Posted by speeder
There are no absolutes when it comes to attraction and it isn't always logical but you make some valid points WRT self-esteem and dating beautiful women. It's like that old saying, "act like you've been there before", (regarding excessive celebration in the end zone).
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There are no absolutes, no buttons to push: There is no cookbook or road map and there comes a point when a man and a woman just know what's next or what won't be.
My sample size is large, so I speak from experience:
- Pay attention. Be yourself. Observe. Make an informed decision but be prepared to be wrong. I once got laid on a plane coming back from Asia. British woman, business class, very standoffish until an hour after take-off.
- Humor. You can laugh each others pants off.
- Never pursue, but if you do, know when to wave-off. Again, pay attention.
- Smart works. Don't date a stupid women more than a few times, regardless of her other attributes. It makes another essential attribute, listening to what she has to say, a boatload easier.
- Sex. We all want the merge, the timeless hours between a couple. Don't rush it: Pay attention, and if she does as well, so much the better. There are times, however, when no amount of physical rendering is going to mean a thing. It just is. Nobody hits for the cycle every game.
- Confidence. It comes from achievement not posturing. Success in one field always leads to opportunity in another. Be good at something, be very good at something.
Good luck, Gents. While I have been married for 24 years, nothing has changed in "The Game". The key is not to think about anything I just wrote
