This guy

And it turns out I have a couple that are similar

And the other one looked like these...small pots

While I was trying to sort the headlights (also known as wasting perfectly good fuses),
The flasher stopped working. Weird as initially, the flasher was the only relay working.
Is the small round pot the flasher and the larger rectangular relay the headlight relay?
Trust me...no doubt about it, I am having fun
Speedo