[RKDinOKC]

Give me the patience and tolerance to keep from slugging my Sister, Brother, and Sister-in-law in the face. I know i am the youngest sibling, but I am not an idiot, in fact I have a higher IQ than any of them.

My sister does not like how Mom has HER house decorated and wants to change move and redecorate everything.

My Brother thinks because I don't spend ALL my time and effort fixing the things he would fix that I don't know how to do anything.

My sister-in-law thinks if you haven't used something in a year, you should throw or give it away (The hypocrite has knick knacks in her own home almost as old has she is). Which means she wants to throw everything of yours that SHE doesn't value.

Why can't they understand that Mom is NOT a hoarder and she Likes the stuff she's collected over her 94 years and the way she has the house decorated. AND, having that stuff changed, moved, stowed, or out and out thrown away makes her slip farther into the oblivion of Alzheimer's.

Also, Today my brother brings over 3 of his grandchildren to cut a dead limb that has fallen from a neighbors tree and is laying in the crowns of two trees in my yard. Tell him not to mess with my trees and I am planning to have a professional come take care of it when it is the right time of year to trim trees. He acts like he doesn't even hear me and has his crew continue anyway. They succeeded in cutting a huge pile of limbs, more than 1/3 of the wood from the two trees the limb is resting on and NONE of the actual dead limb then decide they can't do it. (He has killed and replaced all the tress on his own property several times from over-trimming.) Honestly it looks worse than when the tree trimmer/butchers the utility company sends out and trims the trees away from the power lines.

AAARRRRRGGH!!!!! What the heck have I done to deserve this?