[Rick Lee]

One of my fraternity bros. was a great guy everyone liked and respected. He met a woman like the ones described above and she totally transformed him. He became totally brainwashed. And she wasn't even that hot; he had had far better. It got the point that she controlled his email and eventually so bad that she had his dog put to sleep. This dog used to be the frat. house dog, was a cool as could be, but she alleged the dog snapped at a child (very hard to believe) and so had to go. He would go for mos. at a time with no contact with the rest of us and we only seemed to get updates when someone ran into him on the street or at the store. When the wedding bells started chiming, he was not allowed to invite any of us or any of his other friends - just family for him and friends and family for her. We had serious discussions of kidnapping him at the altar, but decided against it. Now they have kids and he's a complete stranger to us all.