My ex has it.
It explains a whole bunch of stuff about her.
Borderline personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
If I allow her to be around me I will have to put up with her drama and bull stuff which makes me the bad person because I can't/won't put up with orchestrated drama.
If I tell her to go pound sand then I'm the bad guy again because I've abandoned her.
I haven't talked to her in a year (which was fine with me) but our son is getting married and she popped up to cause stress in my life again.
I can't see a upside to this at all........