[stomachmonkey]

Hmm,

18?

Legally she is on her own.

The outstanding school bill, depending on the timing they may /should be on the hook for it.

The college fund, bit of a gray area. I have funds for my kids. We are stewards of the accounts and set up by my guy so that if my kids go off the reservation they can't just go grab the cash the day they turn 18.

May be a parenting issue, may not.

She's an honors student at a private school. Would indicate she has her poo together but that's no guarantee.

Had a friend whose older brother was on the honor roll at a prestigious parochial school.

The guy was horribly intelligent but also a really bad seed. There was something seriously short circuited upstairs. He was a one person crime wave. Think he's still in jail.

Rest of the kids all turned out fine.

Still me thinks there is more to the story from both sides.