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Experiencing loss is one of those things we all have in common. None of us are immune to it. There isn't one quick fix either, you have to go through this period. Not necessarily alone, but you must go through the grieving process to get beyond it. Once you do this, time will do a great thing and happiness can return.
Although you have take care of yourself, spending your time for the benefit of others can be extremely therapeutic. There's no need for an expensive shrink. You can talk to a pastor for free, or simply put yourself out there as a volunteer with absolutely zero expectations for personal gain. I find I am most content when I put others above myself.
Perspectives make this possible. Certainly Christians realize they are here to serve and not be served, that kinda sums it up for most. But before they were Christians, they had to receive the gift of faith through Jesus before they too could give of themselves freely. Trying to go rogue and doing it on your own is only a temporary fix. I can't answer this question for other faiths or secular world views, this is my own personal experience.
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