Sorry to hear your experience is less than rewarding. I found online dating to be a hoot....if kept in perspective for what it is.
I took the liberty to do a quick search of threads you've started in here to see if I could glean a little about you to offer my advice. What I found:
1. You're a picky eater
2. You're plagued by chronic rashes on your butt
3. You have hot flashes
4. You sleep walk
5. You have difficulty making guy friends
6. You own a Pekingnese (hey they're cute...FWIW I own a Cavalier but he was a rescue pooch)
7. You're in your early thirties
8. Still live with your parents? (Just a guess from a reference to your mom and dad walking your dog and your brother's hamster...ARMAGEDON!!!! ARMAGEDON!!!!)
9. You're a "creative" writer/producer
10. You have difficulty showing interest in meeting new people because they're boring or stupid
11. You don't like kids around in social situations
12. You get banished to the friend zone by women from time to time
13. You're a fan of the TV shows GLEE and Nip & Tuck
14. You drive a Miata
Hmmmmmmm......no clue as to what the problem is with online dating.
(Just kidding....had to bust your chops, AFC. It'll get better.
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