My wife did trim the yard the first few years we were married. That stopped right after we moved into this house. She does plant the flowers. She points at a spot for me to dig a hole and she plants it in the ground. I have dug more holes in the dirt since getting married than I ever did when single.
We have 5 Koi. I think they are gay fish. Most of the folks we know with koi ponds have babies. We have not had one fish puppy. Lots of tadpoles and little toads. A few skinks and some tiny little snakes.