Many of my old GFs (or girls that I dated before meeting my now wife) have, over the years, become my patients as I have now been in practice for 30 years. So I see them and now their kids and SOs on a fairly regular basis as patients...about every two or three years on average. As a result, I've witnessed them "aging" and for a lot of them, it has not been very kind to say the least!....especially the smokers!
I would say that out of say 15 (that I can remember off hand) of these ladies, only one stands out....we are talking just physical beauty here....but that one has a lot of baggage, has been married a bunch of times and is generally very high maintenance!
I would have to say that, though I am somewhat biased, my wife has stood the test of time very well!...she is still a very attractive, "hot" woman at 53!...and has a great head on her shoulders..we are very happy with each other, even after 23 years of marriage.
And so, in my case, I do tell her when I run into an old "flame".
Yesterday, a lady that I dated once or twice back in '85 or '86 came in for an eye examination....I hadn't seen her in ten years....whoah! I didn't even recognize her! .....still smokes!!!....gawd!... I can smell her from a mile away!
So last night, as we sat down to watch the news, I got down on my knees, took my wife's hand, looked into her eyes and proclaimed: "I'm so glad I married you!"
She giggles and says: "Again? Who did you see this time?".....LOL!
What do you guys do? Tell or STFU? OR does it depend on how hot the old GF is?!?