I'm a bachelor - no kids...no wife - - - yet.
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'Have this Mossberg Mod. 500 Pump Persuader Maxi-Combo 12 ga. on the floor next to my bed. Loaded and ready, safety on. ....
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A 1911-A1 on my headboard:
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This S&W .38 on my coffee table in the living room:
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When I'm out and about, sometimes I'm packing this:
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And a Browning Hi-Power 9 in both cars.
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I sleep fairly well most nights.