[Joel8005]

First, I live in a very safe area, barrier Island with only 2 roads off. About 3 years ago I had an eye opener. The bride was down stairs watching tv while I was up in bed reading a book, heard a blood curdling scream....... HELP, HELP!!!!!!!!!!. No idea what she was screaming about but she is not the type of gal to freak over a spider. Came running down stairs to find a blood covered man standing in front of one of our doors. This hoodlum had to open our back gate and climb a flight of stairs just to open another gate to walk onto the back deck, closest road 300 yards away. Back door was unlocked, as always...... young brother standing there gun in hand, had he been smart enough to open the door he would have been inside our home a just a few feet from my wife. He did not see me coming down the stairs and I was able to slide behind the stairs and get to the office where I had a Kal Tec 32 in a drawer. Was able to come up on him from an angle and informed him that he needed to drop the gun NOW, he complied and then fell to the ground. Turns out he had been shot and stabbed about a mile away in a drug deal, go figure. Cops came, he was arrested, cash in pocket along with crack.... left us to clean up the blood, so much for your public servants helping you out, the only advice was use bleach, it's the only thing that kill HIV!!!!!!
From that day forward, we had a personal protection device close to every door in the home, wife now knows how to handle them with confidence.
The moral of the story is, be prepared for anything, even at the home. I carry about 60% of the time, its that 40% that I worry about.
Now back to the OP, if you have a gun in a safe with a code and you need it, well,your ****ed and maybe dead. You stated you have no kids so why would you need to put the guns in a safe? Place in in a drawers, cabinet ect. Show your wife where they are and teach her to shoot, make her feel confident with them in her hands...... Unless you are screwing around with a younger women or your secretary, then forget the last few sentences and you are on you own!