No we are getting somewhere with this thread. The male perspective!
I am the only male in my department of the Children's hospital. I am surrounded with 25 women from the staff and Another 15 mothers every single day. I am sourly objectified and frequently need to pull out my fly swatter to free myself. Can I make a video of that?? Nooo. That would be sarcastic bordering on cynical. Who takes care of my vulnerability, my insecure feelings?
OK. Who am I kidding.