Here you go. Check the BBS, many helpful pros and hobbyists.
http://www.homeshopmachinist.net/
For books check out the machinists bedside reader series by Guy Lautard. Lots of old school, practical information and projects to help build your skills.
As for where to find the machines, check your yellow pages for machinery dealers. Many shops have bit the dust in the past couple of years, old bridgports are almost give away items now.