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Originally Posted by Apollo
Thanks-understand this-but being hard headed to family members is very difficult.
Trying to keep out of it but keep opening my trap and get apoplectic in seconds it seems. I gotta calm down-going to bust a poofo valve  |
Yes this is the best action. Your sis is taking advantage of your parents, but if you interfere too much YOU will be blamed for 'breaking up the family' and causing lots of grief to your parents - and the original cause will be forgotten!
This happened to me. My sis & her new husband were taking advantage of my elderly mother, I spoke up & wouldnt compromise and mom died unhappy. After that, it all became
my fault!!! Family split forever, I can live with it but its hard for my wife and the younger generation.
PS: I recently found out that my sis (now ex-sis!) is borrowing from my disabled brother & there is no way that she could ever pay him back!