High school? its just a place to go and more hoops to jump through. Learned a few things, but I was your typical C student. I didn't hang out with any groups, belong to any clubs, or play sports but x country just to keep in shape during winter for bike racing in the summer. I did go to high school with Heidie Fleiss. She sat one seat in font and one roll over in Driver Ed but she never said one word to me or anyone for that matter. No reunions, no Face book for me. A really hot looking but very stuck up girl from way back now lives about a block down the hill from us. She never said anything to me in class, and she still doesn't when my wife and I waved and said hello to them as they hike by up the hill for a walk Saturday mornings.
One of my kid's classmate's mom happens to be an old friend from high school. Our families go to dinner sometimes so the kids can play. She keeps in touch with people so I get all the who's who. Funny thing is that, she seems to know how everyone's doing but really never talk to them but only read about them on a computer screen.