[recycled sixtie]

Well Saucy you are in a bit of a pickle. But it is not the end of the world. First off she is your mother. I would not close her off completely. Acknowledge what she is saying. Perhaps she is not aware of the effect she is having on the folks around her.

Reflecting on my mother who died at age 94 somebody said at the funeral that she died ten years ago. Perhaps there is some truth to that in that she had some mental issues in the last few years of her life. Spats of anger and paranoia etc.

Your mother raised you in the best way she knew how. I just think that people with these kind of issues find this behaviour as a way to survive. I would say be patient and understanding. Just make sure you are a good parent and get on with your life.

Cheers, Guy